a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
flatcapman (in Australia) 26 Dec 2004 at 16:55 GMT

Hi my name is Lloyd Duff and I am looking for a guy in his 30's that wears flatcaps and is a smoker and enjoys chatting via e-mail to guys who are like me. I wear 3 piece suits and am proud of the fact I am old fashioned for a man in his 30's but play computer games so there is a bit of old and new in me. I get my ideas from old and new movies and have been enlighted by a person in a steven segal movie(the foreigner-Jan Jurewicz) I look very sexy in a suit and equal him although i am skinnyer and have a longer thinner face plus my lips are not as HUGE as his I love porsche sportscars and plan on owning a mark 2 of my very own if I ever have the bread. I walk like him and can mimic his german accent quite well and I proudly wear flatcaps and when I return from my trip to England I will have the entire "man with porsche" warddrove down to the felt green turino flatcap(and what a sexy dish i will look like been told i look better then him if thats possible? I look like a knight? I WISH).

Thank you

Flatcapman

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
BR Regular (in the United Kingdom) 26 Dec 2004 at 17:22 GMT

Words are somehow not enough

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® h™ (in the United Kingdom) 26 Dec 2004 at 18:51 GMT

Indeed not - This guy is seriously obsessive. I've seen his stuff on the other forums. Looks like he's killed the NZ forum.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
burble (in the United Kingdom) 26 Dec 2004 at 19:16 GMT

...and when I return from my trip to England

i'll alert immigration.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
Flatcapman (in Australia) 27 Dec 2004 at 10:47 GMT

Hi A seroius word to you people I have read your comments and I am not amused. My fantasy about Man-With-Porsche is my deal and something I have been dealing with for the last year. One day I plan on finding Jan and explaining why I feel this way about him and how on god's green earth did I kill off the new zealand forum I have done nothing to new zealanders and even have good friends from there so I have no beef with them. As for me going to England YOU HAVE NO GODDAM REASON TO KEEP ME OUT OF ENGLAND I HAVE LINED UP A FLATCAPMAN OF MY OWN AND I AM NOT FOR ANY REASON KNOWN TO GOD OR MAN BE DENIED MY OWN REAL LIFE GUY I DONT SEE ANY REASON FOR ME TO BE ALONE NONE OF YOU WILL EVER UNDERSTAND YOU TRY WATCHING SOME GORGUS HUNK GET BRUTALY SHOT DEAD WHILE ALL YOU WANT IS HIS GERMAN COCK AND YOU TELL ME THAT I'M GLEN CLOSE(WHICH I AM NOT THATS FOR SURE). I WILL HAVE MY SOULMATE !!!NO MATTER WHAT!!!!

If you are not like me or him then i will never see you it was his green turnino flatcap that grabbed my attention. You dont know me and none of all of you are angels SO BACK OFF

Thank you and goodentuck

Flatcapman

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
BR Regular (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 10:50 GMT

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® tartwithaheart (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 11:18 GMT

you poor obsessive cunt, we have the men in white coats waiting at immigration control ready to take you away.........

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® h™ (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 12:00 GMT

Lloyd, don't shout dear you'll do yourself a mischief.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® adl (in Canada) 27 Dec 2004 at 13:32 GMT

I think I missed something. Who's the German who got shot?

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® TisFrank (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 14:31 GMT

you can see the actor Jan here

http://www.filmweb.pl/Jan,Jurewicz,filmografia,Person,id=8551

and a review of the film here

http://www.movie-gazette.com/cinereviews/276

some people think they look really sexy with a pipe
or sunglasses on their head, or a gold medallion hanging down their hairy/buff chest.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® h™ (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 14:36 GMT

And some have difficulty seperating fiction from reality.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® tartwithaheart (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 14:48 GMT

I think its reveiw about describes the movie and Mr. Lloyd Duff

It's Got: Some interesting European locations.

It Needs: To be overlooked in favour of 'The Transporter'.

Summary: A confused actioner where even the fight sequences don't always make sense - it has little to recommend it. 3/10

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® adl (in Canada) 27 Dec 2004 at 14:49 GMT

So this is the guy who was shot? The language on the website wasn't German.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® tartwithaheart (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 14:52 GMT

I think its Polish

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
flatcapman (in Australia) 27 Dec 2004 at 15:39 GMT

your right miss sweet tart it is in polish not his best picture then again it was taken in 1988 and by the way sweetie its "obevssive horny flatcapman" and he is not the the 1st bloke in a dugie I have had the hots for and I do know the difference between what is real and what is not come oh guys dead people dont blink HELLO he's good but not that good and whats wrong with a fantasy it has certainly served me well and I can tell he is not german they dont have mick jagger size lips(well the ones I have seen in Adelaide haven't and the place is crawling with krouts). Also I hide my fantasy very well and unless they import Jan from Poland naked excect for his cap and I drool all over the floor I dont think so tarty Play nice.

God Bless

Flatcapman

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® Wilf (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 15:41 GMT

I think I'm loosing the plot.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® adl (in Canada) 27 Dec 2004 at 15:55 GMT

Oh good, then it's not just me. If this man is Polish, why did the poster say he was a German who was shot? And why tell us, unless he was shot because he's gay. Or his (real life) lover?

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® h™ (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 16:00 GMT

I don't think I give a toss!

btw, flatcapman, this isn't a contact forum - you'll find those elsewhere on the site.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® TisFrank (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 16:05 GMT

what plot!

nice review of Segal film here

http://www.geocities.com/theactionkingsi/ActionKings-Seagal-Foreigner.html

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
OK people here's the lowdown (in Australia) 27 Dec 2004 at 16:44 GMT

to set the record straight it was a car robbery Dunior was stealing his car he ran back pissed off banging the window with his plane ticket and ratman lowered the window pointed the gun with silencer at him. the king drops a load in his suit pants trying to escape and PFF PFF Down goes the king and he lies there vomiting blood all over himself and the floor !!that is sick cruelty to an old person and you mob will not be young forever and the actor is Polish but his charactor is a German businessman and judgeing by his briefcase no luggage and flash threads he was going to England.

Hope this clears things up and his name is Erdrick


Flatcapman

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® h™ (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 16:59 GMT

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® adl (in Canada) 27 Dec 2004 at 17:17 GMT

So this was a movie and not real life, as in someone you know getting killed?

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® tartwithaheart (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 19:31 GMT

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® Astro (in the United Kingdom) 27 Dec 2004 at 20:03 GMT

Come on, give the guy a break. It’s a fantasy he enjoys, involving flatcaps, suits and a scene in a film. Basically harmless stuff as long as he doesn’t let it disrupt reality for himself or others. Flatcapman HAS actually been posting around the site for a while with (I think) little response, and is basically just looking for someone to share the fantasy (indicated by his thread title). I think the UK BR is probably the best opportunity he’s had on Guyslink to talk about it, as there hasn’t been much response elsewhere. With the UK BR being very active, he could be certain that his request would be noticed. We talk about anything and everything here. Re the NZ BR, I’ve never seen much activity there. (As with all the other Blue Rooms).

Anyway, this is an adult gay chat/contact site. Guys come here to share their fantasies and fetishes in a way that they can’t elsewhere. If Lloyd was into feet, or being whipped, or cross-dressing, that would be totally acceptable here. Many guys use this site to indulge fantasies they can’t realise in real life. It doesn’t make sense to discriminate against a guy who has a fetish about flatcaps instead of lingerie. Being accepted on a site like this can make it easier to live your 'real life'.

I AM concerned that Lloyd could take the film fascination too far and cause distress to himself or other people, but I’ve said that in a previous post to him. I trust that he’s living a ‘real life’ but using the site to try and indulge and share a fantasy, which so many other site members do.

If Lloyd’s coming to the UK, I hope he has a good time. We already have loads of fetishists and eccentrics here, and we’re well known for exporting them around the world. It’s a kind of secondary fashion nowadays. If Lloyd is at all 'odd' then he should blend in very well.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® TisFrank (in the United Kingdom) 28 Dec 2004 at 00:35 GMT

well said Astro and I should know

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
Flatcapman (in Australia) 28 Dec 2004 at 13:27 GMT

Thank You Astro people should realise that everyone is different. Different strokes for different folkes I have found a charming real life gentleman from England and am going to stay with him for some time he is a flatcapman like me and a pipe smoker and one very handsome hunk and looks a lot like deep throat from the x-files. he is a bigger hunk then porschey and best of all he's real. No more video and huge toy fun just him me a bottle of champage and ill let you horny people imagine the rest.
And alas no i am not giving you his name Sorry must protect him you do understand.

Thanks again Astro. You are a very kind awesome person

Flatcapman

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® Pseud (in the United Kingdom) 28 Dec 2004 at 13:52 GMT

Astro/Flatcapman - whilst not excusing the flak Flatcapman has withstood, any fetishes on this site have ALWAYS met with scepticism on this particular board, and that is simply because we've fought for a good long while for this board NOT to be turned into a meat market - and there is also another board on this site for casual contacts where discussion of that nature is commonplace.
Thus when someone posts messages akin to those of Flatcapman it tends to get the kind of response that it did.
For instance, I could bore everyone here rigid with my fetish for PVC, but I would not expect to do it without some smart alec making fun - and, through experience, I think you'll learn the same is possible for you and your fetishes.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® Wilf (in the United Kingdom) 28 Dec 2004 at 16:14 GMT

I quite agree with Pseud, I don't think anyone was trying to be hurtful, I certainly wasn't, I just found the whole thing very confusing, I'm pleased of he has found himself a nice chap here in England, and hope he is very happy, but I don't think it was that important a posting for anyone to get on their high horses about, Now let me get back to licking these rubber boots.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® Astro (in the United Kingdom) 28 Dec 2004 at 16:18 GMT

Point taken about the ‘meat-market’, Pseud, you’re quite right, the BR isn’t a contact forum and shouldn’t be used as one. I’ve seen other guys being directed to the contact/pen-pal forums with a humorous remark, but I felt that the comments here were rather more harsh and inhospitable, especially considering that Flatcapman is going to be visiting our country. And the advice to go to another forum was given some way down the thread, so it wasn’t made clear that he’d posted in the wrong place. In real life, I try to be polite and helpful to people who come to my home or work who need directions to get to somewhere else, and I appreciate when others treat me in that way. The remarks seemed to be about his fantasies, not the fact that he was posting in the wrong place. And the more unusual or specific your fantasies/fetishes are, the more vulnerable you are to taunting when you reveal them.

Contact posts make up a large part of the other BR posts, so a newcomer to the UK BR may not realise right away that it’s really not wanted on that board. Also, there is a bit of discussion in some threads about TV soaps, personalities etc, so someone may think it’s OK to start a thread about a film character. However I’m really stretching a point there, so I won’t pursue that one.

If you’ve done any really unusual or innovative stuff with PVC, I’m sure it be FAR from boring to read about (please take that as a joke, NOT an invitation or challenge!)

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® adl (in Canada) 28 Dec 2004 at 17:21 GMT

Oh, if you're meeting someone based on their photos, make sure to find out when the pictures were taken. A young friend of mine recently travelled to the next province to meet a guy he had been chatting with on-line and then over the phone. My friend told me he was so sure of this meet that he went bought a new box of condoms - which included three freebies. None were used. The photos turned out to be a decade (or more) old.

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® Wilf (in the United Kingdom) 28 Dec 2004 at 17:24 GMT

Of course this is a great danger meeting someone on the web adl, well I mean I would NEVER say I was younger than I really was, but when I get to 33 (next year) I might be tempted. Now I do hope nobody is going to be rude about me!!

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® h™ (in the United Kingdom) 28 Dec 2004 at 17:40 GMT

Perish the thought wilf!

Re: a flatcapman lookin for a friendship with someone the same
® Pseud (in the United Kingdom) 28 Dec 2004 at 22:00 GMT

Most of yours do!

Re: beglian boy scout looking for simliar
® Tintin (in the United Kingdom) 29 Dec 2004 at 10:48 GMT

hi i like playing ginger belgain boy scout with a quif i look fab in my nickerbokers and white socks i like fun and being licked by little white dogs. lookin for bearded alcoholic with a pipe who swears lots sexy or what!!! also trannies who dress up as opear singers and guyz with mostaches sticks and boaler hats for three some. get in touch via e mail or msn or see my wbsite at www.tintin.com

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Re: beglian boy scout looking for simliar
® mouse (in the United Kingdom) 29 Dec 2004 at 11:00 GMT

I think I know where to find a tranny for you. Though opera might/will be beyond me - but I'm quite willing to wear the outfit if that's what turns you on.
And, now I come to think of it, I think I can lay my hands on the bearded alcoholic too - provided he doesn't shave for a day or two.

Re: Jan Jurewicz I cant be the only guy lovin him
Flatcapman (in Australia) 29 Dec 2004 at 16:57 GMT

Hello guys I am not posting anything for anyone Im just curious if anybody else who is gay finds this guy as hunky as i do I cant be the only person on this planet who is sexualy atrracted to him This is Fantasy as in I enjoy looking at his cap

Thank you
Flatcapman

Re: Jan Jurewicz I cant be the only guy lovin him
® Wilf (in the United Kingdom) 29 Dec 2004 at 19:13 GMT

Oh dear, here we go again, I find all this flatcap business very confusing, and I'm NOT having a go at the young man either, it must be me that's dense.

Re: Jan Jurewicz I cant be the only guy lovin him
Flatcapman (in Australia) 30 Dec 2004 at 06:54 GMT

dont worry wift I dont think you are dense at all. Mostly old guys wear then and guys like me who love old guys